tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1943424657885597268.post177988556304317070..comments2023-10-09T12:49:51.857-04:00Comments on lesbifriends.blogspot: being labledashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08381817928446553225noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1943424657885597268.post-21935584153994034382009-10-09T12:46:47.904-04:002009-10-09T12:46:47.904-04:00oh hey, are you on twitter? if so, you should put ...oh hey, are you on twitter? if so, you should put up a "follow me on twitter" box.Hipstercritehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02168118598530462596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1943424657885597268.post-27788193010740696572009-10-09T11:14:26.897-04:002009-10-09T11:14:26.897-04:00kirstyn- you know i know what you are saying. albe...kirstyn- you know i know what you are saying. albeit you get more of the male attention than i do, as your boobs sit prominently on your chest. you know i will forever be marveling at your lady lumps.<br /><br />and lauren, i wont lie, i copied your comment and pasted it to my mother b/c i was so flattered! thank you again.ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08381817928446553225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1943424657885597268.post-19770819805443240882009-10-09T10:54:55.836-04:002009-10-09T10:54:55.836-04:00here here! i totally agree. i define myself as &qu...here here! i totally agree. i define myself as "lauren". i could be a girl, boy, straight, gay...it doesn't matter and i don't care! great post (as usual)<br /><br />p.s. you're a freakin' writing machine. you churn out quality posts as easily as taking a crap.Hipstercritehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02168118598530462596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1943424657885597268.post-50946585088315550552009-10-09T00:46:14.612-04:002009-10-09T00:46:14.612-04:00OKAYYY so. this little "gem of a video" ...OKAYYY so. this little "gem of a video" as you might say, got me jumping in my seat. <br /><br />We do have to "come out" daily and it's bs. People just ASSUME that I am straight, and it is the most annoying thing ever. I hate how everyone just assumes things. Even though it is only human nature to do so, as I do it too. <br /><br />And I think it's plenty hard being a femme lesbian. People assume I'm straight, and then when I tell them I'm not, they argue with me. LIke, who the fuck are they to argue MY sexuality ? And then they make another assumption that I date girls that look like guys. "Well why are you gay if you're just gonna date a girl that looks like a dude?" Umm, excuse me, but I date who I please, and I've never dated a girl that looks like a guy. Haha. I prefer pretty girls. =] <br /><br />Then, to make everything EVEN harder, no one knows I'm gay, so it's that much harder to find anyone to be in a relationship with. Not only do we get discriminated against by straight people for being gay, but gay people also discriminate against us for not looking "gay". <br />And gay people constantly question my sexuality and don't believe I am actually gay just because of the way I look.<br /><br />It's funny because people accept that a "butch" girl is gay because of the way she looks, but a lot of the "butch" girls I know are actually girlier than I am.. <br /><br />ahh..stereotypes can blow up. <br /><br />I have lots more to say.. I could go on for hours.. But not via internet because I can never get what I fully want to convey out this way. blahblahblah. <br /><br />-kirstynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com